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The longer you're in a committed relationship the harder it is to stay faithful. It's weird to me because i love my gf, i want to marry her, want her to have my kids, i literally can't imagine spending the rest of my life without her. But all i can think about is ******* this cute chick i work with. Maybe it's the thought of just having one vajayjay for the rest of my life (even though it's great). IDK i kind of feel like a dick for even thinking about ******* that chick.
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I dunno, I think its just the way a guys mind works. I have been with my gf for 3 years (next month anways) and I always like check other girls out, and will be a wingman if necessary, but I know my mind and guilt will stop me from going to anything physical. And I love my gf, and can't imagine being with anyone else. I think its just a mindset, not that we are dicks but a way our mind works. Its like, do you feel guilty checking other girls out?
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08-28-2009, 11:35 AM
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I dunno, I think its just the way a guys mind works. I have been with my gf for 3 years (next month anways) and I always like check other girls out, and will be a wingman if necessary, but I know my mind and guilt will stop me from going to anything physical. And I love my gf, and can't imagine being with anyone else. I think its just a mindset, not that we are dicks but a way our mind works. Its like, do you feel guilty checking other girls out?
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yes and no, because i look at it as "window shopping". i'm not going to buy it or try it on, just admire it from afar.
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08-28-2009, 11:44 AM
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yes and no, because i look at it as "window shopping". i'm not going to buy it or try it on, just admire it from afar.
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Exactly, and isn't that what you are doing with that girl from work?
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08-28-2009, 11:58 AM
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Exactly, and isn't that what you are doing with that girl from work?
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yeah but when im around her i start thinking with my dick and not my brain.
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yeah but when im around her i start thinking with my dick and not my brain.
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Ah, so you don't do that with any other girls that you have glanced at?
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Ah, so you don't do that with any other girls that you have glanced at?
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not really because i know in the back of my mind if i really wanted to i could **** her. that being a real possibility changes things imo.
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not really because i know in the back of my mind if i really wanted to i could **** her. that being a real possibility changes things imo.
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OIC, well your not thats the thing, I think you kind of established that. Its the guilt that will kill you and keep you from making any advances.
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OIC, well your not thats the thing, I think you kind of established that. Its the guilt that will kill you and keep you from making any advances.
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indeed it is.
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indeed it is.
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Tough dilemma though, especially since you work with the person
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Just have her give you a beej or something and if your girlfriend ever finds out then say you were imagining it was her as she was slobbing you knob.
Works every time.
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i'd advise against.
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Just have her give you a beej or something and if your girlfriend ever finds out then say you were imagining it was her as she was slobbing you knob.
Works every time.
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Perfect, that plan can't fail
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I just got engaged to my girlfriend of almost five years last night.
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I just got engaged to my girlfriend of almost five years last night.
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Congratulations, your life is over.
But honestly Congrats.
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Congratulations, man. You may be one of the lucky few who found love relatively early in life.
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08-29-2009, 07:29 PM
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Having sex with someone you work with is not a good idea unless she is a major skank only interested in sex with you. If she wants a relationship it becomes really awkward & if you go out with her and break up, which very likely would happen it would become even more awkward.
That advice is regardless of a GF. With a serious GF its has more complications.
The **** and everyone at work knows you have a GF and that you'd be devastated if she found out you cheated. They will own you and use that to turn you into their *****.
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How long do you two plan on being engaged?
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Not sure, but at least a year.
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Having sex with someone you work with is not a good idea unless she is a major skank only interested in sex with you. If she wants a relationship it becomes really awkward & if you go out with her and break up, which very likely would happen it would become even more awkward.
That advice is regardless of a GF. With a serious GF its has more complications.
The **** and everyone at work knows you have a GF and that you'd be devastated if she found out you cheated. They will own you and use that to turn you into their *****.
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Maybe you could just not cheat...
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08-30-2009, 10:22 AM
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Yeah, that would be the case if he were a ******. ;)
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Congrats.
Man I'm coming up on my 3 year wedding anniversary. Crazy.
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08-30-2009, 10:46 AM
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Ugh, this chick basically ruined my night last night. Well, not ruined but definitely held it back.
She is okay looking, but I met her a few nights ago at a party and she gave me her number. I wasn't that interested so I never did anything. Fast forward to last night, I go to a pretty big party, and there she is. She sees me like as soon as I get there but I try and "not see her". Anyway, she eventually walks up to me and I have to deal with the whole "why didn't you call?" and really boring conversation. Completely killed any chance to talk to new chicks.
Really the only reason I talked to her the first time was because I was a bit more inebriated. Plus she had better friends too.
Not really relationship help, just venting, unless anyone knows of a sure trick to get out of that. She wasn't taking no for an answer. I was trying to think of a good way out, then the cops came so I was actually thankful.
Classes start tomorrow though, so hopefully I can have a lot of good opportunities for new ladies.
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I love how girls are allowed to pull the "why didn't you call?" card, but guys aren't. Don't you enjoy double standards?
If I have no interest in ever calling a girl, I'm not going to take her #. If she tries one or twice, I'll just change the subject and try to walk away. If she tries 3-4 times, I'm going to flat out say nicely "not interested". If she pushes it after that, I'll firmly tell her to leave me alone that she's making me uncomfortable. Any problem after that, and I start going on the attack and kind of be a huge jerk about it.
So yeah, your problem is that you took the # in the first place. Drunk or not, you need to be smarter and foresee that kind of BS.
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