Relationship Advice Thread

[M.O.T.H.]

She likes to use that facetime bs on her iphone. So there you go.

[Raiderz4Life]

iphone??

Damn it sweety....

[M.O.T.H.]

lol. Oh snap.

[StickSkills]

Ok, dated this girl Jill back in February. Wasn't really serious because honestly, it lasted 2 weeks.

Fast forward to Saturday night, and that girl's friend, Ally, kept on talking about how she just wants to hook up with a guy, a one night stand. I'm like, "yeah, I same here but with a girl." Anyways, we keep talking and such and I even said, "look, we should probably just **** each other." Her response is, "Yeah, but Jill would kill me if we did." She keeps on going back to that. How do I get around that response?

[Raiderz4Life]

Convince her a 2 week dating period does not meet the requirements to appy the "Don't **** your friend's exes" rule.

or get her piss drunk and get drunk yourself and wala.

[StickSkills]

Originally Posted by raiderz4life

Convince her a 2 week dating period does not meet the requirements to appy the "Don't **** your friend's exes" rule.

or get her piss drunk and get drunk yourself and wala.

That was the situation we were in, and she was the first one to bring up that 2 weeks doesn't apply for that rule, but yet was still faking.

I wonder if she just wants the attention and is afraid that if we do ****, I'll be done with her and wont give her that attention. (And honestly, that's my plan.)

[kalbears13]

Originally Posted by StickSkills

Ok, dated this girl Jill back in February. Wasn't really serious because honestly, it lasted 2 weeks.

Fast forward to Saturday night, and that girl's friend, Ally, kept on talking about how she just wants to hook up with a guy, a one night stand. I'm like, "yeah, I same here but with a girl." Anyways, we keep talking and such and I even said, "look, we should probably just **** each other." Her response is, "Yeah, but Jill would kill me if we did." She keeps on going back to that. How do I get around that response?

[Raiderz4Life]

lmao I like Kal's solution too.

[StickSkills]

Yeah, I think I'll go with that.

[Raiderz4Life]

Originally Posted by StickSkills

That was the situation we were in, and she was the first one to bring up that 2 weeks doesn't apply for that rule, but yet was still faking.

I wonder if she just wants the attention and is afraid that if we do ****, I'll be done with her and wont give her that attention. (And honestly, that's my plan.)

I'd say force her hand a bit. Tell her if she's down, you're down, no strings attached and no one aka Jill will hear a word from you. If she flakes then she was never really gonna do it and go find someone else to mess with.

[Prowler]

Originally Posted by StickSkills

Ok, dated this girl Jill back in February. Wasn't really serious because honestly, it lasted 2 weeks.

Fast forward to Saturday night, and that girl's friend, Ally, kept on talking about how she just wants to hook up with a guy, a one night stand. I'm like, "yeah, I same here but with a girl." Anyways, we keep talking and such and I even said, "look, we should probably just **** each other." Her response is, "Yeah, but Jill would kill me if we did." She keeps on going back to that. How do I get around that response?

Subtly ignore it.

"I understand what you are saying woman, so why don't you come over and watch a movie?"

Once she's in an isolated area like your house, hotel, or back room and is getting felt up...then instincts take over and you're good. I recommended movie so you don't have to spend money on her.

[Brent]

So there is a girl who teaches at a nearby school who I have had a thing for (see previous posts in this thread). anyway, back in July I was texting with her telling her how I was going to the coast and making it sound like I do awesome **** all the time (which isn't false, but I was playing it up; even sending her a couple picks of **** at the beach), but when I asked her how the start of her school year was going, I got a weak response and never had a follow up to my initial response. With that, I decided that I was done. I was not going to say a ******* word to her.

That was like the last week of August, but this past Saturday I had to take some kids to an event at a local high school and I knew she was doing the same. However, as I said before, I didn't give a ****. But, on Friday, she messages me asking if I am going. I keep my promise to not respond. On Saturday, without prompting, she comes up to talk to me. We chat, but I don't take it any further than that. That said, at one point when this other person is going over dates for various events that she or I would be taking students to she texts me from across this room which ones she is going to without me asking.

I don't bother to respond because, as I said, I am done with this girl. I had previously asked her to hang out but never got a response or she "couldnt" and with that I had given up.

About 3-4 minutes ago, I get a text from her: "How's your week going? :("

**** that. I am done. I have put it out there enough times that I am into her and this is what I get? I called a female friend and explained all this and she was like, "clearly this girl just wants attention. don't bother" which is great to hear because I can follow The Ladder Theory like a champ.

Okay, sorry I just needed to vent.

[SuperMcGee]

Originally Posted by Brent

(which isn't false, but I was playing it up; even sending her a couple picks of **** at the beach)

You were on the right track until I remembered that "dick" isn't censored.

[Brent]

Originally Posted by SuperMcgee

You were on the right track until I remembered that "dick" isn't censored.

I am saving it for the "when in doubt" situation.

[MetSox17]

Just bone her and leave her, Brent.

[scottyboy]

yeah, get some rufilin and then butt sex and then profit

[Raiderz4Life]

yes to all of those

[Jvig43]

Dont bother, you start texting her back and she'll get the attention she wants and revert to not messaging you. Keep doing what youre doing, its for the best despite what your pants or feelings tell you.

[MetSox17]

I don't see what the problem is with a "wanna hang out" text if you have nothing to lose. Worst case scenario she says no and you're back to where you would be if you ignored her in the first place.

[Cigaro]

Originally Posted by Brent

So there is a girl who teaches at a nearby school who I have had a thing for (see previous posts in this thread). anyway, back in July I was texting with her telling her how I was going to the coast and making it sound like I do awesome **** all the time (which isn't false, but I was playing it up; even sending her a couple picks of **** at the beach), but when I asked her how the start of her school year was going, I got a weak response and never had a follow up to my initial response. With that, I decided that I was done. I was not going to say a ******* word to her.

That was like the last week of August, but this past Saturday I had to take some kids to an event at a local high school and I knew she was doing the same. However, as I said before, I didn't give a ****. But, on Friday, she messages me asking if I am going. I keep my promise to not respond. On Saturday, without prompting, she comes up to talk to me. We chat, but I don't take it any further than that. That said, at one point when this other person is going over dates for various events that she or I would be taking students to she texts me from across this room which ones she is going to without me asking.

I don't bother to respond because, as I said, I am done with this girl. I had previously asked her to hang out but never got a response or she "couldnt" and with that I had given up.

About 3-4 minutes ago, I get a text from her: "How's your week going? :("

**** that. I am done. I have put it out there enough times that I am into her and this is what I get? I called a female friend and explained all this and she was like, "clearly this girl just wants attention. don't bother" which is great to hear because I can follow The Ladder Theory like a champ.

Okay, sorry I just needed to vent.

You were friendzoned, she texted you looking for a friend to join her that day, that simple.

That being said, I could've sworn you were married.

[CashmoneyDrew]

I think you should send her one text, and one text only....

"Look here *****, are we sexing or not?"

[scottyboy]

Originally Posted by MetSox17

I don't see what the problem is with a "wanna hang out" text if you have nothing to lose. Worst case scenario she says no and you're back to where you would be if you ignored her in the first place.

and if she ignores you, don't do it again though. like last chance thing, but then again, if you're looking for something "real" I'm not sure you're gonna get it from this girl. if you want sexytimes/roofies/buttsex, then the throwing it out there text can't hurt. Again, like last text ever kinda thing

[MetSox17]

Originally Posted by scottyboy

and if she ignores you, don't do it again though. like last chance thing, but then again, if you're looking for something "real" I'm not sure you're gonna get it from this girl. if you want sexytimes/roofies/buttsex, then the throwing it out there text can't hurt. Again, like last text ever kinda thing

Yeah, that's what i meant. Like a half court shot type of thing.

[scottyboy]

Originally Posted by MetSox17

Yeah, that's what i meant. Like a half court shot type of thing.

great minds think a lot. now let's go grab some tacos, on you!

[BaLLiN]