Relationship Advice Thread - Page 347

Raiderz4Life · 10-19-2012, 03:27 PM

So I'm guessing the....'mere ***** *kiss*...approach don't work???

Rosebud · 10-19-2012, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by raiderz4life

So I'm guessing the....'mere ***** *kiss*...approach don't work???

Nah, dreidel is a classy gal and needs to be seduced.

Raiderz4Life · 10-19-2012, 07:59 PM

Not gonna lie...I always thought dreidel was a jewish top type thing...

Rosebud · 10-19-2012, 08:19 PM

It is, but it's also what I've always called jrdrylie in my head n so would have to be my pet name for him.

Raiderz4Life · 10-19-2012, 08:26 PM

lmao makes sense. I'm sure you two'll make a cute couple.

Rosebud · 10-19-2012, 08:44 PM

You know we would.

draftguru151 · 10-19-2012, 08:53 PM

I'm gonna print that out and keep it in my wallet in case I ever need it.

Forenci · 10-19-2012, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Rosebud

We're just talking about a kiss though, not trying to bone her on the first date. If she likes you enough to go out to dinner with you n then to go dancing, she likes you enough for a kiss.

Not necessarily. I don't know. Maybe I'm old fashion in that sense. I think it's a risk free approach, especially if you don't want to make things awkward if you want to be friends with her.

And like I said, emotions and feelings don't usually happen overnight. Especially if you were looked at as a friend previously. Sometimes they take time to develop and kissing her too early could result in blowing it completely.

Bulldogs · 10-19-2012, 11:34 PM

This thread needs more MOTH.

Raiderz4Life · 10-19-2012, 11:37 PM

Where is MOTH

Da-Phins · 10-20-2012, 12:08 AM

MOTH is probably stuck between a moment of giggling like a little school girl and crying over his mishaps with the ladies tonite at some club.

Raiderz4Life · 10-20-2012, 12:10 AM

and making out with his ex

MetSox17 · 10-20-2012, 05:22 AM

And lying on the internet.

M.O.T.H. · 10-20-2012, 08:20 AM

Every word I type is the truth. haha.

Ummm...lets see, it is the weekend, so of course I have a story. Been talking to my ex a little more. It's not really going well. She's currently "friends with benefits", with this douche, who wants to beat my ass. He's like 225, steroid using, perk and coke head...so a good guy, obviously. A real psycho, who is pretty untouchable because of his cop daddy. I dont know if he got word that her and I hooked up last week. I hope so. lol. But anyway...so she was there last night at the bar. I was talking to her, before he showed up and then she drifted away. He and I locked eyes a few times, he was giving me the death stare, I thought it was funny. But yeah...then they started fighting for whatever reason. And she was pissed and wandered from him. Then she was at the bar, and the 30 year old I hooked up with a couple times recently came up to me...noticed I was a little annoyed/frustrated. So she wanted me to kiss her on "the cheek" when my ex would walk by. Didnt really want to, but I did. Kind of got a little lip, not my intention. lol. Sooo...30 year old walks away. Only to come back like 10 seconds later...and she just mauls me right in front of my ex. lmao.

Pretty funny. Bad news...why did I stop with the 30 year old? Because I found out she had a boyfriend. A dude who coaches college football, former TE. Like 6'6 270. lol. I sure can pick em. But yeah, I thought we were cool to just chill as friends now. I had no real attachment. Yeahhhh...she was trying to get me to come over bad. But yeah...two weeks in a row where the girl makes the first move and pretty much pins up against a wall, to make out. pfffftttt. What can I say? I like when girls take control sometimes and I love kissing. I'm gonna get blindsided by a disgruntled dude one of these days, though.

Seriously...when I'm drunk I get so over affectionate too, I guess. Idk why any girl would want to make out with my sloppy self, like that. But it happens a lot more than I'd like to admit. Surprised I've never been slapped by a girl. Apparently I'm a charmer when I'm hammered. huh. I wish I could see myself on camera that drunk, cause I'd probably never drink again.

...happy? More M.O.T.H.'s hilarious so called life stories in the relationship advice thread. At this point...I just laugh all this stuff off.

Rosebud · 10-20-2012, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Forenci

Not necessarily. I don't know. Maybe I'm old fashion in that sense. I think it's a risk free approach, especially if you don't want to make things awkward if you want to be friends with her.

And like I said, emotions and feelings don't usually happen overnight. Especially if you were looked at as a friend previously. Sometimes they take time to develop and kissing her too early could result in blowing it completely.

It's not necessarily risk free either. If she's expecting you to make a move, not doing so could be a major turn off.

Raiderz4Life · 10-20-2012, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Rosebud

It's not necessarily risk free either. If she's expecting you to make a move, not doing so could be a major turn off.

my tendency was usually a kiss on the cheek and gauge her reaction

Da-Phins · 10-20-2012, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

Every word I type is the truth. haha.

Ummm...lets see, it is the weekend, so of course I have a story. Been talking to my ex a little more. It's not really going well. She's currently "friends with benefits", with this douche, who wants to beat my ass. He's like 225, steroid using, perk and coke head...so a good guy, obviously. A real psycho, who is pretty untouchable because of his cop daddy. I dont know if he got word that her and I hooked up last week. I hope so. lol. But anyway...so she was there last night at the bar. I was talking to her, before he showed up and then she drifted away. He and I locked eyes a few times, he was giving me the death stare, I thought it was funny. But yeah...then they started fighting for whatever reason. And she was pissed and wandered from him. Then she was at the bar, and the 30 year old I hooked up with a couple times recently came up to me...noticed I was a little annoyed/frustrated. So she wanted me to kiss her on "the cheek" when my ex would walk by. Didnt really want to, but I did. Kind of got a little lip, not my intention. lol. Sooo...30 year old walks away. Only to come back like 10 seconds later...and she just mauls me right in front of my ex. lmao.

Pretty funny. Bad news...why did I stop with the 30 year old? Because I found out she had a boyfriend. A dude who coaches college football, former TE. Like 6'6 270. lol. I sure can pick em. But yeah, I thought we were cool to just chill as friends now. I had no real attachment. Yeahhhh...she was trying to get me to come over bad. But yeah...two weeks in a row where the girl makes the first move and pretty much pins up against a wall, to make out. pfffftttt. What can I say? I like when girls take control sometimes and I love kissing. I'm gonna get blindsided by a disgruntled dude one of these days, though.

Seriously...when I'm drunk I get so over affectionate too, I guess. Idk why any girl would want to make out with my sloppy self, like that. But it happens a lot more than I'd like to admit. Surprised I've never been slapped by a girl. Apparently I'm a charmer when I'm hammered. huh. I wish I could see myself on camera that drunk, cause I'd probably never drink again.

...happy? More M.O.T.H.'s hilarious so called life stories in the relationship advice thread. At this point...I just laugh all this stuff off.

MOTH why do you want to continue talking to your ex if she has no morals or any self respect? You need to move on son! Its time to pimp yourself out to other girls and go get ya some.

M.O.T.H. · 10-20-2012, 11:55 AM

Yeah, I know, I know. I really am an idiot for being so hung up on her. She's not a good girl and she's not going to settle down. And if she ever does...she probably wont be faithful anyway. Just something about her...i cant explain it.

Raiderz4Life · 10-20-2012, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by M.O.T.H.

Yeah, I know, I know. I really am an idiot for being so hung up on her. She's not a good girl and she's not going to settle down. And if she ever does...she probably wont be faithful anyway. Just something about her...i cant explain it.

For your ex

M.O.T.H. · 10-20-2012, 12:16 PM

Noooooooooooooo joke. I put that up as a facebook status when I broke up with. lol. I just thought it was funny. That's a good song.

draftguru151 · 10-20-2012, 12:41 PM

Seriously is there only one ******* bar in that state?

Raiderz4Life · 10-20-2012, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by draftguru151

Seriously is there only one ******* bar in that state?

Thought it was a joke at first but...yea I'm starting to wonder this as well.

M.O.T.H. · 10-20-2012, 04:27 PM

This is actually in PA. Ummmm...there are several that we all go to. But typically everyone around here goes to this same bar/club every weekend or so. You see the same faces every weekend.

njx9 · 10-20-2012, 04:28 PM

you should like... stop going to that bar.

Raiderz4Life · 10-20-2012, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by njx9

you should like... stop going to that bar.

Don't even bother...he won't listen to sound logic and reasoning.