Relationship Advice Thread - Page 351

Da-Phins · 10-28-2012, 07:19 PM

I think its hard for girls to be interested in me. For starters I really dont think much of myself and two, I seem to be angry and cold hearted lately. I mean damn a little thing can set me off and go down the deep end. Dont think Im right in the end anyway.

BaLLiN · 11-01-2012, 11:41 AM

Raiderz4Life · 11-01-2012, 11:46 AM

we need more than that1!!

BaLLiN · 11-01-2012, 11:55 AM

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we need more than that1!!

I'm so proud of myself. I thought I knew next to nothing on how to please a woman because my first time was with that girl who was 8 years older than me and I was young, but I know the human body pretty well and was able to use that to my advantage. She said she was surprised because when I told her that I hadn't had sex in 4 years she said she expected it to be bad. I'm pretty sure I got her close to orgasm twice before sex by stimulating her clit and areola, and then I lasted longer than her.

She said she only likes it on top, which is fine with me because I hate the feeling of thinking im raping the girl. It felt really tight (which from what I remember from the first time it wasn't probably because that older girl had sex a lot). She said she didn't want to use a condom anymore because shes on birth control, but I don't trust that ****.

bearsfan_51 · 11-01-2012, 12:04 PM

Wait....what? How do you go four years without having sex?

bearsfan_51 · 11-01-2012, 12:05 PM

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Is a girl worth waiting for if you think she is the "one" even though she doesnt want a relationship right now and MAYBE would be interested in one sometime in the future?

No. Get more confident.

draftguru151 · 11-01-2012, 12:07 PM

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She said she didn't want to use a condom anymore because shes on birth control, but I don't trust that ****.

Good man.

georgiafan · 11-01-2012, 12:17 PM

I've posted this before but it never gets old

- short video

- really short video

BaLLiN · 11-01-2012, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

Wait....what? How do you go four years without having sex?

Well I associated sex with raping someone because the first girl I had sex with laid on her back with her eyes closed like a dead body. I could've done it so many other times, but I am glad I waited for this girl because I am really comfortable with her, and we talked before and after for a long time and it was so easy. I have high standards for myself as well.

Raiderz4Life · 11-01-2012, 02:05 PM

I'm pushing like 3 years now I think.

PACKmanN · 11-01-2012, 02:29 PM

Two simple steps must be followed;

1. Stop posting on swdc
2. Stop watching sports

Do these two things until you get laid.

draftguru151 · 11-01-2012, 02:34 PM

Once again packman is absolutely wrong.

Ness · 11-01-2012, 02:36 PM

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Well I associated sex with raping someone because the first girl I had sex with laid on her back with her eyes closed like a dead body. I could've done it so many other times, but I am glad I waited for this girl because I am really comfortable with her, and we talked before and after for a long time and it was so easy. I have high standards for myself as well.

Interesting. I like missionary and doggy style more than any other. On top doesn't do it for me. I think my girl feels the same way. I never heard of the feeling of raping a girl. Different strokes for different folks I suppose.

thefalconer · 11-01-2012, 02:39 PM

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I never heard of the feeling of raping a girl.

that's cause you've never done it. different strokes for different folks I suppose.

MetSox17 · 11-01-2012, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Raiderz Fo' Life

I'm pushing like 3 years now I think.

raiderz.. my boy... wtf man. GET ON THE BALL

jrdrylie · 11-01-2012, 02:47 PM

Reverse cowgirl or

MetSox17 · 11-01-2012, 02:49 PM

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Reverse cowgirl or

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>.

BaLLiN · 11-01-2012, 03:28 PM

I think im gunna try that next time, but i doubt ill like it because then i don't see boobs.

jrdrylie · 11-01-2012, 03:36 PM

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I think im gunna try that next time, but i doubt ill like it because then i don't see boobs.

That's the only downside, as I too am a boob man. If this is your worry, just make sure you get your fill of boobs during foreplay.

georgiafan · 11-01-2012, 03:37 PM

Another example of girls being flakey as this always gets old. This girl texts me yesterday and later on ask me if I want to go to dinner later that night. We go to dinner and everything goes good are about as good as u can have with a first date as u get to know someone.

I ask her if she wants to go do something else thinking she would say no as by this time its 9:30 and everything in my small redneck town is closed. She says she has to go change cars and clothes and she would be over to my house in about 25 minutes. She then calls me and says pretty much the same thing she just told me. She then texts me with the "I had such a good time tonight thank you much for dinner". About a hour goes by she starts texting me alot and then still says she is about to leave even as late as 10.45. It wasnt big deal that she didnt show up but why in the world did she say all the other nonsense as I would have been fine with just dinner.

BaLLiN · 11-01-2012, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by georgiafan

Another example of girls being flakey as this always gets old. This girl texts me yesterday and later on ask me if I want to go to dinner later that night. We go to dinner and everything goes good are about as good as u can have with a first date as u get to know someone.

I ask her if she wants to go do something else thinking she would say no as by this time its 9:30 and everything in my small redneck town is closed. She says she has to go change cars and clothes and she would be over to my house in about 25 minutes. She then calls me and says pretty much the same thing she just told me. She then texts me with the "I had such a good time tonight thank you much for dinner". About a hour goes by she starts texting me alot and then still says she is about to leave even as late as 10.45. It wasnt big deal that she didnt show up but why in the world did she say all the other nonsense as I would have been fine with just dinner.

it just seems like she was timid to do anything else with you

BaLLiN · 11-01-2012, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jrdrylie

That's the only downside, as I too am a boob man. If this is your worry, just make sure you get your fill of boobs during foreplay.

lol, i think I'm gunna do that thing where someone on here suggested that when the girl is taking a shower (only to get sweaty again...) I will pose naked on my side with my hand holding up my head and wait for her.

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one more thing, what is acceptable to do when she's giving me oral? I'm not making any noises btw, i just breathe heavier

jrdrylie · 11-01-2012, 03:50 PM

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lol, i think I'm gunna do that thing where someone on here suggested that when the girl is taking a shower (only to get sweaty again...) I will pose naked on my side with my hand holding up my head and wait for her.

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one more thing, what is acceptable to do when she's giving me oral? I'm not making any noises btw, i just breathe heavier

Play Xbox?

BaLLiN · 11-01-2012, 03:50 PM

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Play Xbox?

she'd probably punch me in the face

georgiafan · 11-01-2012, 03:51 PM

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it just seems like she was timid to do anything else with you

Yea it must be and if she ignored me after the date all together it would make more sense to me then calling and texting after it. But oh well im sure i'll talk to her at some point soon. She seemed intrested in me at least on some kind of level.