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Old 10-12-2009, 06:43 PM    (permalink
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That's just my opinion. Granted, I've never had anything 'fixed', but I've learned to grow and get over things.

I'm not saying that he is going to cry like a baby once he realizes that its gone, I'm just saying, he might think that it wasn't a big deal as he thought it was once he gets it fixed.

Again, I've never had any personal experience, but I know that if I were to get something on my body fixed, then I think I would regret it after it was fixed because that "thing" has been a part of me for 20 years.

A gap in your teeth shouldn't be keeping you back anyways. If a girl doesn't like it, tell them to **** off.
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Unless you're being sarcastic, I don't see how a shrink or counselor would help that. The only time I'm confident is when I'm intoxicated, and I hate that.
You're just young and still getting comfortable with yourself. You got what you got plain and simple. Some things physical can be manipulated, but bottomline is you have to be comfortable in your own skin. If you wake up everyday and look yourself in the mirror and are happy with what you see then you've won the biggest battle. Everyone is attractive to someone, just as personality will always triumph over outer appearance in the long run. Stop worrying about what girls want and start being happy with the man you are becoming.

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Man you guys are so much better than most my buddies...best piece of advice i got was

When in doubt....Whip it out.....

I've to really do it with no one to turn to haha not saying its a bad thing...just sayin
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The best way for you to get and keep a girl is that you make this feeling go away, even if for just a little while.
You can make yourself look better. If you still have insecurity and self esteem issues. They'll pop up again, and again, and again.
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You can make yourself look better. If you still have insecurity and self esteem issues. They'll pop up again, and again, and again.
I meant to erase the girls. Make here feel attractive and wanted and so forth. How you go about doing that is the difficult part.
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Look a girl in the eyes. Smile. Walk up ask whats on your mind. Walk away.

Worked on AQ.

Go the gym, look people in the eyes, smiling, wearing decent shoes, and not dressing like The Peefs. These are my suggestions.
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So, this chick from work wants me badly but I am not that interested, despite that fact that she is bang-able...

What are the rules on that sort of thing? Never experienced work relationships.
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Old 10-13-2009, 12:22 AM    (permalink
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So, this chick from work wants me badly but I am not that interested, despite that fact that she is bang-able...

What are the rules on that sort of thing? Never experienced work relationships.
Real work or lame job?
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Old 10-13-2009, 12:47 AM    (permalink
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So, this chick from work wants me badly but I am not that interested, despite that fact that she is bang-able...

What are the rules on that sort of thing? Never experienced work relationships.
Pull a Dwight, show her your 3 wolves howling at the moon shirt, achieve one-night stand, erase from memory.
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So, this chick from work wants me badly but I am not that interested, despite that fact that she is bang-able...

What are the rules on that sort of thing? Never experienced work relationships.
How often do you interact with her at work?
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Man you guys are so much better than most my buddies...best piece of advice i got was

When in doubt....Whip it out.....

I've to really do it with no one to turn to haha not saying its a bad thing...just sayin
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How often do you interact with her at work?
If you work side by side it's a no, if you see her every now and then, or only really know her in passing then yes, if it's a career and not just a school type job, then NO NO NO.

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So, this chick from work wants me badly but I am not that interested, despite that fact that she is bang-able...

What are the rules on that sort of thing? Never experienced work relationships.
If you have to outright reject her and it gets ugly, tell someone in HR about it right away and make sure you get some sort of proof that you did. It may be unnecessary but it's also insurance in case she tries to get revenge by saying you sexually harassed her.
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Man you guys are so much better than most my buddies...best piece of advice i got was

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It's job I am quitting at the end of the year, as I start student teaching in the Spring.
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So I have a question, it has nothing to do with me in terms of advice...

One of my friends is hung by his balls by his girlfriend, and she is pushing him so hard to get him to marry her. Now, he just got back from basic training and tech school, and all of us want to be around him just as much as she does. But she takes him and forces him to be with her. And it pisses us off. He is in our band and she thinks that every gig that we have she has to be at, even if it means we have to make the arrangement to have enough room to get her there with us. This kid is hung up by his balls so bad, and he agrees with everything she says, even if it has to do with his best friends. What should we say/ do/ not do? This is so frustrating to all of us.
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So I have a question, it has nothing to do with me in terms of advice...

One of my friends is hung by his balls by his girlfriend, and she is pushing him so hard to get him to marry her. Now, he just got back from basic training and tech school, and all of us want to be around him just as much as she does. But she takes him and forces him to be with her. And it pisses us off. He is in our band and she thinks that every gig that we have she has to be at, even if it means we have to make the arrangement to have enough room to get her there with us. This kid is hung up by his balls so bad, and he agrees with everything she says, even if it has to do with his best friends. What should we say/ do/ not do? This is so frustrating to all of us.
I kind of know how you feel. I guess there isn't much you can do. You could tell the ***** to back off, but you don't know what kind of reaction you'll get out of your friend. Kind of a Saving Silverman thing lol
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So I have a question, it has nothing to do with me in terms of advice...

One of my friends is hung by his balls by his girlfriend, and she is pushing him so hard to get him to marry her. Now, he just got back from basic training and tech school, and all of us want to be around him just as much as she does. But she takes him and forces him to be with her. And it pisses us off. He is in our band and she thinks that every gig that we have she has to be at, even if it means we have to make the arrangement to have enough room to get her there with us. This kid is hung up by his balls so bad, and he agrees with everything she says, even if it has to do with his best friends. What should we say/ do/ not do? This is so frustrating to all of us.
Leave it alone, he'll choose her over you in a second.
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So I have a question, it has nothing to do with me in terms of advice...

One of my friends is hung by his balls by his girlfriend, and she is pushing him so hard to get him to marry her. Now, he just got back from basic training and tech school, and all of us want to be around him just as much as she does. But she takes him and forces him to be with her. And it pisses us off. He is in our band and she thinks that every gig that we have she has to be at, even if it means we have to make the arrangement to have enough room to get her there with us. This kid is hung up by his balls so bad, and he agrees with everything she says, even if it has to do with his best friends. What should we say/ do/ not do? This is so frustrating to all of us.
Okay, let's hash a few things out. It looks to me like you and your bandmates don't like this girl to begin with. That is the real issue. You guys don't like her and what she is about, and you also don't want her around. In the end, you don't get a say in that. You just have to hope he comes to agree with you. You can't sabotage their relationship or force him to choose. Simply put: you are stuck with her as long as he decides she is in his life.

From a band perspective, you owe her nothing. Her showing up and supporting you at the gigs is great. If her presence before gigs (like traveling) is a band-level problem, you guys need to confront him and basically make a rule that it's band members only travelling to gigs and before gigs. That is a business thing. She isn't in the band, and if the band wants its space from her before gigs, that is your right.

I would sit him down alone and basically say "We understand that you like/love this girl, but we feel uncomfortable having to transport her to every gig. When we're at a gig, it's business, and it's band only before we play. We need to stay focused on that alone, and we want you to help us keep on getting better as a band."

You can't make this situation personal. You can't tell him that you don't like her. It is business only, IMO.
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It's not that we don't like her, its just that she thinks she owns him. And I guess that's ok, if that's what he wants. What you said about the band thing hits home. I will say that to our leader, cause our leader agrees.
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your band has a leader?

ha. weird.
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