Relationship Advice Thread - Page 286

Caddy · 11-09-2011, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by trademaster

So the pimp hand is strong at the moment

One Of my female best friend is a lesbian, always wanted to tap that ass maybe dating even for the past 2 years. Been turned down numerous times so I stopped trying.

The past year, she got into weight lifting like really got into it, all at the same time she grew feelings for me but I don't wanna sound like a douche but I'm just not attracted to her anymore.

Here is the catch, her current girlfriend who is bi is so into me.
& she is more my type, she got that pretty white girl ass.
Now how do I turn this to an orgy? Been partying too much since my ex broke up w/ me but men, you know what F<UCK A B!TCH

You are no 'The Dong' so please stop trying.

trademaster · 11-09-2011, 12:13 AM

I just read about 10 pages worth of this thread. Some of y'all like metsox and the dude with the pee wee Herman sig doin it right.

Remember, hoes always going to be hoes.
Just gonna learn how to squeeze right, cause the better your squeeze the better the ***** juice.

Next time you meet a girl, I want you to tell her "**** you hoe then get her number". If you really like the girl on that next level sh+t this lines always works. "hey I just wanna say Ur beautiful with a gorgeous spirit". DAT will get yo nut drained for weeks

SickwithIt1010 · 11-09-2011, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted by thefalconer

samesies :(

I just dont know how to pull that **** off. If I dig a girl, im gonna let em know that. But it just seems like chicks would rather go for the asshole that is gonna play them, and then they start complaining about how they cant find a nice guy lol.

VUBlacknGold · 11-09-2011, 01:42 AM

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Originally Posted by SickwithIt1010

I just dont know how to pull that **** off. If I dig a girl, im gonna let em know that. But it just seems like chicks would rather go for the asshole that is gonna play them, and then they start complaining about how they cant find a nice guy lol.

Women love a "Challenge" or love to be "Chased". If you arent either then you seem to boring or "Safe". They arent worried about when theyre 30, they just wanna live life before life starts living it FOR them. If you show youre interested but never make it seem like its gunna plateau, you might have something.

On a side note, when women be cramping/that time, they make rash choices and sometimes they make it seem like its a dead set opinion, let them cool off a bit and try to let them know that whatever situation they are in, youre right there with em and if they need space, you can do that.

What im trying to say is, if you want it to work, you gotta put in the work

bearsfan_51 · 11-09-2011, 08:03 AM

You probably think they don't like you because you're a nice guy, when in reality they wouldn't like you no matter how you act.

Women like guys that are interesting and nice to look at. Basically the same ******* thing guys like but with the personality a little more important and the looks a little less.

They aren't a foreign species or anything.

SickwithIt1010 · 11-09-2011, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

You probably think they don't like you because you're a nice guy, when in reality they wouldn't like you no matter how you act.

Women like guys that are interesting and nice to look at. Basically the same ******* thing guys like but with the personality a little more important and the looks a little less.

They aren't a foreign species or anything.

Idk, like i have no problem finding girls who I can hook up with and have the one night stand. I have no problem being an asshole when it comes to something like that when Im a little tipsy at a bar.

But to be completely honest I just need to slow down a little bit. Ive been drinking way too much this year and getting stuck in that mode. I kinda like the relationship deal and that is where I have the problem.

Ravens1991 · 11-09-2011, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by bearsfan_51

You probably think they don't like you because you're a nice guy, when in reality they wouldn't like you no matter how you act.

Women like guys that are interesting and nice to look at. Basically the same ******* thing guys like but with the personality a little more important and the looks a little less.

They aren't a foreign species or anything.

I would say a lot more personality and a lot less looks. I have seen a lot more guys date up then date down.

Raiderz4Life · 11-09-2011, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravens1991

I would say a lot more personality and a lot less looks. I have seen a lot more guys date up then date down.

This is true. Problem I think a lot guys have is they look for the wrong types of girls. You gotta know what works for you and then find girls that will put more value on that quality.

Ravens1991 · 11-10-2011, 04:15 PM

Dont you just hate when you are talking to a girl from your class and she out of nowhere turns into another direction before you can get her number.

Raiderz4Life · 11-10-2011, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravens1991

Dont you just hate when you are talking to a girl from your class and she out of nowhere turns into another direction before you can get her number.

Yea...when you're ready to go in for the kill and she walks away pisses me off haha.

Ravens1991 · 11-10-2011, 04:58 PM

yea it was funny because I was walking to my dorm and she was walkin to the parking lot and the parking lot is right infront of my dorm. She went around this thing and I went through it. So she ended up like 10 feet behind me. I was like damn it.

georgiafan · 11-14-2011, 07:28 AM

Here is an update on this as I decided not to try and line up a date with her this weekend. I have a felling she was expecting me to ask her out for this weekend. I decided not to as I wanted to see how my other 2 dates went that I had

My first date I thought went really well and one of the better first dates I've ever had. They wasnt any ackward silences and even though she was young was very mature. But turns out she wasn't as impressed as I was so nothing is gonna come out of it. It kinda puzzled me but I would much rather her just be honest with me like she was and not string me along. I knew it would be hard for us to be in exclusive relationship anyway bc we live over an hour from each other and she goes to college and works full time.

The second date was a total disastor from the start. So in the end I guess im back to square 1.

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Originally Posted by georgiafan

Allright here is my story me and this girl dated 2 years back (4 dates) and then I ended it as I started dating someone else. A little background on me im im my late 20's and looking to find the right one.

I had a 2nd date with her this past weekend and we went to the UGA football game. She got mad at me during the date bc I didnt want her to upload a pic of me on facebook. So because of that I didnt think the date went all that good. I must have been wrong bc i got the after date "I had such a good time" text message and she also had a status on facebook saying something similiar.

The thing is she isnt someone for a several diffrent reasons that I see myself in a serious relationship with. But I enjoying talking to her and spending time with her. I'm also not the kind of guy who is just gonna have sex with her and not talk to her again as im a virgin.

She always seems to do something to keep me wanting to talk/hang out even though i know I may be in to deep at this point. Maybe its me reliving some old high school fantasy since she was the head cheerleader. Maybe its something as simple as her being 4'11 with a size 2 and a D cup lol.

I also have 2 dates lined up with diffrent girls this weekend which I wanna see how those go.

Ravens1991 · 11-17-2011, 06:21 PM

whats your favorite way to start talking to a girl who is passing you as you walk by? I usually just say hi but im trying to get her number and invite her to this party my friends are having.

Raiderz4Life · 11-17-2011, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravens1991

whats your favorite way to start talking to a girl who is passing you as you walk by? I usually just say hi but im trying to get her number and invite her to this party my friends are having.

Print out a flyer and hand it to her saying she's more than welcome to come.

Ravens1991 · 11-17-2011, 06:40 PM

Its a kegger probably not best idea to put that on paper.

StickSkills · 11-17-2011, 08:15 PM

Note to all: Girls that let you throw up and get back in bed with them immediately are keepers.

Hines · 11-18-2011, 12:06 PM

Soooooo I had an interesting night last night. My ex and I hung out after not seeing each other for 4 months and she was OK with it and asked me if I was OK with it. She has a bf, so nothing happend, but her and I got along great and it seemed to go well. There was a little awkwardness when we first hung out and we didn't talk much, but once the night went on and a few drinks, we BSed and all that good stuff. I didn't really talk to her that much because I didn't want to smother and I do get kinda emotional and truthful when I'm drunk so I just kept quiet.

Then when she left, she said bye and gave me a hug. I was going to re-add her on Facebook but didn't have enough courage. My friend did it for me when I was in the bathroom and I didn't know about it until I checked my phone and it said that she accepted it. I was pretty damn happy. I wake this morning and I was blocked on Facebook by her, which left me VERY confused. When her and I did become Facebook friends again, a few of her good friends liked it which, IMO, bodes well for me.

I'm not sure, but I'm 85% sure that her "boyfriend" saw it and got mad and told her to delete and block me. I don't know why it would be such a big deal since he still has feelings for his ex, having a kid with ex, and is probably going to leave my ex for his ex once the baby is born. It just left me real confused and I heard from the grapevine that she wants to do it again(us hanging out).

I'm not getting no hopes up, but IMO, this is a step in the right direction. I do not want to date my ex for a while as I just want to be friends, but it was just nice to see her and I'm glad that we hopefully put all our differences aside for just one night.

georgiafan · 11-18-2011, 12:18 PM

As long as she has a boyfriend there isnt any way yall can be just freinds and hang out and talk on facebook. Since this is the kind of thing that yall didnt do after yall break up. I'm sure her new bf was behind it and you can't blame it if you look at it from his point of view.

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Originally Posted by Hines

Soooooo I had an interesting night last night. My ex and I hung out after not seeing each other for 4 months and she was OK with it and asked me if I was OK with it. She has a bf, so nothing happend, but her and I got along great and it seemed to go well. There was a little awkwardness when we first hung out and we didn't talk much, but once the night went on and a few drinks, we BSed and all that good stuff. I didn't really talk to her that much because I didn't want to smother and I do get kinda emotional and truthful when I'm drunk so I just kept quiet.

Then when she left, she said bye and gave me a hug. I was going to re-add her on Facebook but didn't have enough courage. My friend did it for me when I was in the bathroom and I didn't know about it until I checked my phone and it said that she accepted it. I was pretty damn happy. I wake this morning and I was blocked on Facebook by her, which left me VERY confused. When her and I did become Facebook friends again, a few of her good friends liked it which, IMO, bodes well for me.

I'm not sure, but I'm 85% sure that her "boyfriend" saw it and got mad and told her to delete and block me. I don't know why it would be such a big deal since he still has feelings for his ex, having a kid with ex, and is probably going to leave my ex for his ex once the baby is born. It just left me real confused and I heard from the grapevine that she wants to do it again(us hanging out).

I'm not getting no hopes up, but IMO, this is a step in the right direction. I do not want to date my ex for a while as I just want to be friends, but it was just nice to see her and I'm glad that we hopefully put all our differences aside for just one night.

Hines · 11-18-2011, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by georgiafan

As long as she has a boyfriend there isnt any way yall can be just freinds and hang out and talk on facebook. Since this is the kind of thing that yall didnt do after yall break up. I'm sure her new bf was behind it and you can't blame it if you look at it from his point of view.

Oh trust me, I know what you mean. I completely understand. It's just a nice step to what we use to be a few months ago. To have her hang out with me and us talkin just for a little last night was good enough for me. I wouldn't call her a boyfriend since all they do is **** and he buys her stuff just to keep her around while he and baby moms work things out till the baby comes. Plus the dude's best friend always causes problems between them and they fight all the time and they've only been dating for like a month.

georgiafan · 11-18-2011, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Hines

Oh trust me, I know what you mean. I completely understand. It's just a nice step to what we use to be a few months ago. To have her hang out with me and us talkin just for a little last night was good enough fr me. I wouldn't call her a boyfriend since all they do is **** and he buys her stuff just to keep her around while he and baby moms work things out till the baby comes. Plus the dude's best friend always causes problems between them and they fight all the time and they've only been dating for like a month.

It's always tricky when you become "friends" with an ex. I think for it to work and not get hurt you have to figure out what your expections are. Are you just being friends with her to get back where you can date her again? or can you talk to her and not have any fellings about her start back up? If the answer to either of those is no then it will not work out long term

Hines · 11-18-2011, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by georgiafan

It's always tricky when you become "friends" with an ex. I think for it to work and not get hurt you have to figure out what your expections are. Are you just being friends with her to get back where you can date her again? or can you talk to her and not have any fellings about her start back up? If the answer to either of those is no then it will not work out long term

I don't have time nor the energy to date right now. I just want to be friends and let fate take over the rest. If we don't date again, I'm perfectly fine with it. I'd like to potentially work things out to date again, but it's not high on my expectation list right now. Just getting more comfortable and hanging out and progressing as friends is what I want.

georgiafan · 11-18-2011, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Hines

I don't have time nor the energy to date right now. I just want to be friends and let fate take over the rest. If we don't date again, I'm perfectly fine with it. I'd like to potentially work things out to date again, but it's not high on my expectation list right now. Just getting more comfortable and hanging out and progressing as friends is what I want.

sounds like no harm then done on your point

georgiafan · 11-27-2011, 01:36 PM

according to match.com me and my ex of close to 2 years are a 93% match for each other.

CashmoneyDrew · 11-27-2011, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by georgiafan

according to match.com me and my ex of close to 2 years are a 93% match for each other.

Someone needs to sig quote this.

Also for relevancy to the thread. Got my first date with this girl from my class this week. It'll be my first date with a sorority girl. Not quite sure what to expect but it should be fun.

eaglesalltheway · 11-28-2011, 07:54 AM

Protocol on asking a waitress for her number, with the hopes of still being able to eat at the diner in the future if she says no... GO!

My one buddy is stuck on this one waitress at a diner we go to fairly frequently, but doesn't have the balls to ask this chick out or for her number, or anything, and his excuse is that if she says no her family (owns the diner) will not allow him to eat there ever again. I'm calling BS and telling him just to nut up anyway, who gives a **** about food when there are plenty of other diners around, but he doesn't hear me too well, I guess, haha. Any advice on how to approach her without making my friend worry about getting kicked out of a diner? Personally, I wouldn't give a ****, its just a diner and in all likelihood, they wouldn't kick him out anyway, or refuse service if he came back. I think he's just being a ***** and making excuses. SO i told him if he doesn't grow a pair I'm ignoring bro code, so hopefully that'll get him going a little bit, but other than that, I don't know what else I can do.