Relationship Advice Thread - Page 51

bsaza2358 · 03-05-2009, 11:56 AM

F that, dude. Tell her you're busy for lunch, but to meet you for drinks at a fun bar. Do it!!!!

bsaza2358 · 03-05-2009, 11:58 AM

The reason here is that you're dictating based on her plans (doctor). Don't act like you're waiting around for her. Just say you have lunch plans and forgot, but you want to see her and will be at the bar. Be aggressive. Bar = booze. Booze = you loosened up and her looser. That combo = HIYO!!!

georgiafan · 03-05-2009, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by bsaza2358

The reason here is that you're dictating based on her plans (doctor). Don't act like you're waiting around for her. Just say you have lunch plans and forgot, but you want to see her and will be at the bar. Be aggressive. Bar = booze. Booze = you loosened up and her looser. That combo = HIYO!!!

Since it's christian CD I made for her, I don't know about meeting her at a bar to have drinks. Then trying to take her home, but I see where you are coming from.

bsaza2358 · 03-05-2009, 12:02 PM

Well, if you don't drink and she doesn't drink, find a different place to meet. This clearly isn't about a CD. Lock it up!

someone447 · 03-05-2009, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by georgiafan

Since it's christian CD I made for her, I don't know about meeting her at a bar to have drinks. Then trying to take her home, but I see where you are coming from.

A girl being a Christian does not preclude either of those, not by a long shot. One of the sluttiest girls I ever met was a hardcore Christian. She just wasn't very good at following the rules about sex.

But if it is your morals, then ya, probably not a good idea.

'cuse-213 · 03-05-2009, 02:20 PM

For all the reports you hear about a 14 year old kid banging his 8th grade teacher.. Those kids have BALLS. This one teacher, decent looking-mid 30s, definitely flirts with me. But I would never get the guts to make a move.

drowe · 03-05-2009, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by 'cuse-213

For all the reports you hear about a 14 year old kid banging his 8th grade teacher.. Those kids have BALLS. This one teacher, decent looking-mid 30s, definitely flirts with me. But I would never get the guts to make a move.

part of me wants to tell you to go for it, but the better part of me doesn't want to be a part of the inevitable headline that will soon follow if you are successful.

so.......just keep her in your spank bank.

bsaza2358 · 03-05-2009, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by 'cuse-213

For all the reports you hear about a 14 year old kid banging his 8th grade teacher.. Those kids have BALLS. This one teacher, decent looking-mid 30s, definitely flirts with me. But I would never get the guts to make a move.

If you are a student, there is no value to you making a move until you graduate. Once you're 18 and out of school, make a move. Until then, spank bank.

'cuse-213 · 03-05-2009, 03:58 PM

lol, shes been in the bank for a while.

bsaza2358 · 03-05-2009, 04:05 PM

Ha. Make your move when she won't get fired or arrested...

Brent · 03-05-2009, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by bsaza2358

Ha. Make your move when she won't get fired or arrested...

Yeah, if she bangs you, the least you could do is allow her to keep her job.

bsaza2358 · 03-05-2009, 04:44 PM

And her freedom...

tjsunstein · 03-05-2009, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Brent

What? He shouldn't say he let's meet here and then ask to go to another location because that makes it easier for her to say no because she wont have to drive all over town.

I said only if it was a mutual distance, closer to her house.

Primetime21 · 03-05-2009, 07:05 PM

So my friends and I are setting up this party room at this kid's house where its cool if we drink and all that good stuff, but Im thinking I need some suggestions from the pros on how to set it up the best for making it a good social party place.

Its a pretty big room and right now we have 2 couches surrounding a table for card games/drinking games like quarters and hockey also we have about 3 rolling chairs placed around the table. Pong table for beer pong. 2 TVs for when its just us guys or movie night.

Games we play now:
Kings Cup
Speed quarters
Beer Pong
Hockey

So how could we turn this into a good atmosphere to party and any games you guys suggest for our table/ pong table. This is more like party advice but some relationships will hopefully emerge if we can get this thing rockin. Im trying to make this as social and girl friendly as possible.

someone447 · 03-05-2009, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Primetime21

So my friends and I are setting up this party room at this kid's house where its cool if we drink and all that good stuff, but Im thinking I need some suggestions from the pros on how to set it up the best for making it a good social party place.

Its a pretty big room and right now we have 2 couches surrounding a table for card games/drinking games like quarters and hockey also we have about 3 rolling chairs placed around the table. Pong table for beer pong. 2 TVs for when its just us guys or movie night.

Games we play now:
Kings Cup
Speed quarters
Beer Pong
Hockey

So how could we turn this into a good atmosphere to party and any games you guys suggest for our table/ pong table. This is more like party advice but some relationships will hopefully emerge if we can get this thing rockin. Im trying to make this as social and girl friendly as possible.

Beer
Beer Pong
Flip Cup
Music

Thats all you really need. Hell, all you REALLY need is the beer and music.

dabears10 · 03-05-2009, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by someone447

Beer
Beer Pong
Flip Cup
Music

Thats all you really need. Hell, all you REALLY need is the beer and music.

Bitches love them some flipcup.

Brent · 03-05-2009, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Primetime21

Im trying to make this as social and girl friendly as possible.

Just make sure that people can talk over the music. So what you might want to do is have the place where the keg would go on the opposite side of the room as the speakers.

tjsunstein · 03-05-2009, 07:13 PM

... and a Jimmy Buffett CD. Live from Fenway preferably.

yourfavestoner · 03-05-2009, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by someone447

Beer
Beer Pong
Flip Cup
Music

Thats all you really need. Hell, all you REALLY need is the beer and music.

And make sure to keep the place CLEAN! Rooms dedicated strictly to partying get dirty very, very fast, and girls hate grimey places.

someone447 · 03-05-2009, 07:38 PM

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And make sure to keep the place CLEAN! Rooms dedicated strictly to partying get dirty very, very fast, and girls hate grimey places.

I assumed they would clean up the day after the party.

Primetime21 · 03-05-2009, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by yourfavestoner

And make sure to keep the place CLEAN! Rooms dedicated strictly to partying get dirty very, very fast, and girls hate grimey places.

Good call. We spent almost 2 hours cleaning it today and we found some pretty disturbing things.

I really wish their was a simple way to make his house a little more social but Im thinking it has something to do with the girls who are there. You guys know the type that group together and all have that high pitched and annoying laugh. Hardest thing seems to find the right girls to party with, at my high school that anyway.

'cuse-213 · 03-05-2009, 07:56 PM

I have partied in some weirdd places. All you need is beer my man.

ATLDirtyBirds · 03-05-2009, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Primetime21

Good call. We spent almost 2 hours cleaning it today and we found some pretty disturbing things.

I really wish their was a simple way to make his house a little more social but Im thinking it has something to do with the girls who are there. You guys know the type that group together and all have that high pitched and annoying laugh. Hardest thing seems to find the right girls to party with, at my high school that anyway.

If you throw a party with the promise of an open house + beer. Everyone is going to head on over.

Brent · 03-05-2009, 08:23 PM

Seriously, the house down the street from us invited 75 and ended up with over 200 at one point. It was a legit party.

Primetime21 · 03-05-2009, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by ATLDirtyBirds

If you throw a party with the promise of an open house + beer. Everyone is going to head on over.

I guess party isnt really the term to describe what I was going for. Just a good sized get together with about 12-16 people and we are cheap so BYOB.